We’re currently in that cozy, slightly disorienting period between Christmas and New Year’s—the days when time feels like an illusion, and holiday cheer lingers in the air. Today, I wished someone “Bonne année” (Happy New Year), and the look they gave me stopped me in my tracks. It wasn’t the warm, festive smile I’d expected—it was more of a raised-eyebrow, did-you-just-do-that kind of stare.
Big mistake.
I felt a little pang of embarrassment, and as soon as I got home, I turned to my French husband for answers.
Turns out, I’d committed a classic French faux pas. In France, it’s considered bad luck to wish someone a Happy New Year before January 1st.
Who knew?
While I thought I was spreading holiday cheer, I was apparently tempting fate.
This little mishap got me thinking—what other superstitions or cultural quirks could trip someone up in France, especially around the holidays? As it turns out, there are plenty! Whether you’re navigating holiday traditions or just day-to-day life, here’s a guide to the French superstitions and faux pas that might catch you off guard.
1. Wishing “Happy New Year” Too Soon
As my morning taught me, wishing someone “Bonne année” before January 1st is a no-go in France. The superstition stems from the belief that you shouldn’t assume the new year will turn out well until it has officially begun. So, if you’re eager to share good wishes, hold off until January 1st—or risk another raised eyebrow!
2. Not Looking People in the Eyes When You Cheers
When raising your glass to toast, don’t forget to make direct eye contact with everyone at the table.
Skipping this step isn’t just impolite—it’s said to curse you with seven years of bad sex.
Awkward?
Yes.
Avoidable?
Definitely. Lock eyes, smile, and give a hearty “Tchin-tchin!”
3. Crossing a Knife and Fork
At the dinner table, how you position your utensils matters. Crossing a knife and fork on your plate is believed to bring bad luck, as it resembles the shape of a cross. Instead, place them parallel to signal you’re done eating.
4. Opening an Umbrella Indoors
Rain or shine, never open an umbrella indoors in France. This age-old superstition suggests it’s an invitation for bad luck—or worse, a stormy household.
5. Bread Upside Down
The French are serious about their bread, and there’s one rule you should never break: don’t place a loaf of bread upside down on the table. This faux pas dates back to medieval times when executioners were given inverted loaves as a grim signal. Even today, it’s seen as a bad omen—so keep that baguette upright.
6. Spilling Salt Without Fixing It
Spilling salt is considered unlucky worldwide, but the French have a solution: toss a pinch of it over your left shoulder to ward off any lurking bad vibes.
7. Stepping in Dog Poop
Strolling through the picturesque streets of France? Watch your step! Stepping in dog poop with your right foot is bad luck, but oddly enough, doing it with your left foot is seen as good luck. A strange consolation prize, but it’s something.
8. Passing the Salt Hand-to-Hand
If someone asks you for the salt shaker, don’t hand it directly to them. In French superstition, passing salt hand-to-hand brings bad luck. Instead, place it on the table for them to pick up.
9. Sweeping Over Someone’s Feet
Be mindful when sweeping the floor—brushing a broom over someone’s feet is thought to curse them to never marry. It might sound old-fashioned, but why take the risk?
Why Understanding French Superstitions Matter
France is a country where tradition and culture intertwine, and understanding these customs can save you from awkward moments—or worse, bad luck. Whether it’s saving your “Bonne année” until January 1st or making eye contact during a toast, these small gestures show respect for French superstitions and culture and make you a more thoughtful guest or resident.
